A question we get asked a lot is "Why is my wedding band scratched?" If you've ever wondered if it is normal for scuffs to appear on your rings, this blog post is for you!
Your wedding band is meant to be worn and loved every day—and with that comes a little wear and tear. It’s completely normal for rings to develop scratches and scuffs over time. Those first few marks might stand out, but as they accumulate, they blend into a soft patina that tells your story—a beautiful reflection of the life you’re building together.
Metal is actually a relatively soft material, which might surprise you. Though it’s durable enough for building and crafting, it sits quite low on the Mohs scale of hardness—meaning it can scratch easily. Everyday things like glassware, ceramic mugs, doorknobs, and even cutlery can leave small marks on your ring. Because we use our hands constantly, rings naturally experience a lot of wear. This isn’t meant to scare you from wearing your jewellery—just to reassure you that a few scratches are a sign of a life well lived.
The type of finish on your ring also affects how visible these marks are. Fine finishes like high polish or brushed metal tend to show scratches more easily, while textured styles—like a hammered finish—can help disguise them beautifully.
There isn't any sort of coating or any way of preventing this from happening, but you can minimize deep scratches and dents by removing your ring before certain activities. Here are some examples of times you should remove your ring to protect it:
- if you work with steel tools and abrasives (sandpaper)
- when you're weightlifting at the gym
- while you're gardening
If you ever want your ring to shine for a special occasion, we can gently polish it up for you. Just remember, each polish removes a very thin layer of metal, so it’s best done sparingly. Over time, the patina that develops is part of your ring’s charm—unique to you and your journey together.
At Jewelust, we believe jewellery is meant to be lived in, loved, and worn through every chapter. Every tiny mark is a memory—a testament to time, connection, and care.